How to have gay sex as a closeted bisexual male

Why are so many bisexual men still in the closet?

There were lots of girls in the neighbourhood, but it seemed that boys played with boys, and girls played with girls, and that suited me perfectly. At the age of 7, I had been enrolled into the Cubs, so even more of my spare time was spent with other boys. In fact, I remained an active member of the Scouting movement until I left home for university some 11 years later.

My 50 years of Gay (But most of it was spent deep in the closet)

People are all too quick to pigeonhole bisexual and pansexual guys. Dating someone femme-presenting? Dating someone on the masculine side? Secretly gay and not ready to admit it. Dating a non-binary person who presents androgynously? Also gay, probably. These fundamental misconceptions swirl around mainstream gay scenes and straight spaces alike.

A Guide for ‘Straight’ Guys Who Want to Explore Their Bisexuality

Extramarital sex with men, to them, helped relieve their sexual needs without threatening their marriages. These men felt as though extramarital sex with women would negatively affect their marriages, whereas extramarital sex with men was not as much of an issue. Most men had not told their wives about their extramarital sex, however.