What to do on a first gay date

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All the Chaotic Gay Questions I’ve Asked on a First Date

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50 Gay Questions To Ask on a First Date

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As I started recently dating men again, I was thrown into a culture shock of just how gay queer dating is. The following are very real examples of questions on first dates, most of them asked without much context. While some of these first dates spurred from an actual friendship so, a more acceptable scenario to ask unhinged questions , most of these were under an app context where I literally did not know the person.